Sunday, August 5, 2012

Escape Your Comfort Zones




John 1:40-42

We’ve just returned from a vacation in New Mexico.  Visit the American southwest if you can.  It’s a lot different than Ohio.  It always amazes me that people who see it for the first time should describe it as “lifeless.”  I want to say, “What are you talking about, it’s full of life.”

Then, too, it’s a meeting of cultures.  In Santa Fe three of those cultures come together:  The already blended culture of eastern and southern Americans, the Indians, and Hispanic Americans blend into one culture.[1] 

We attended a festival celebrating the Hispanic heritage and visited a reservation. I’m not going to review our vacation but I want to draw from the experience to make a point.  Among the Hispanics Christianity had a strong influence; although there are many Indians who follow “the Jesus Way,” Christianity has not had a particularly positive impact.   We met a Hopi artist who said “God bless” as we left but the truth is mission efforts have largely failed this population, though recently there seems to be more interest in Christianity among younger people.

The problem has deep roots.  Going back to the beginning of European settlement, both the Spaniards and the English settlers often mistreated and misused the Indians.  That hurt the cause of the missionaries.  Centuries ago, Don Gonzalo, a 70-year-old Nicaraguan Indian, offered his opinion of Spaniards he had known: “Ultimately, it turns out that one must conclude that Christians are by no means good.… Where are the good ones? To be sure, I myself have certainly not yet known any good ones, only bad ones.”

Over the centuries the story was the same.  Europeans demanded the Indians become Americanized when they became Christians.  It created resentment, especially as missionaries often worked for the government that regularly lied to the Indians.  No wonder mission efforts often failed.

Yet they didn’t always fail.

One church official asked Indians the reason why they liked one group of friars better than the others. The Indians replied, “Because these go about poorly dressed and barefoot just like us; they eat what we eat; they settle among us; and their intercourse with us is gentle.”

Those willing to leave their comfort zones often succeeded.

A comfort zone is that condition in which you are comfortable, content, and secure.

In the New Testament, Peter exemplifies the power of the comfort zone and the need to get past the restrictions we place on ourselves because of those comfort zones.

When Peter first met Jesus, the Teacher from Galilee said something remarkable to him:  “You’re Simon, Jonah’s son, you’re going to be called ‘Rock’.”  This was more than a prediction of a name-change, Jesus was talking about a character transformation.  That transformation was necessary before Peter could become a Rock, before he could carry out the mission to which Jesus called him when he invited Peter to follow him:  I will make you a fisher of men

As we review Peter’s life we’re going to see him escape a number of comfort zones.  As he does so we’ll be reminded that a willingness to let Jesus transform us is the key to being useful to him.

If we follow Peter’s example we may have to escape those same comfort zones.

We May Have to Escape the Comfort Zone Called Routine (Luke 5:1-10)

Every evening, for most of his life, Peter and his partners would set out fishing.  This wasn’t recreation—he wasn’t spending a few hours on the lake so he could kick back and relax.  This was his livelihood; it was how Peter placed bread on the table.  It was hard work, boring work, but it was work he knew.

Then Jesus showed up one morning following a miserable night and told Peter and his friends, “Launch out into the deep and let your nets down for a catch.”  It was silly.  They fished at night, not in the morning.  They fished in shallow water, not in deep water.  Now, this carpenter was telling the fishermen how to do their jobs.   Still, after a brief argument Peter agreed.  They caught more fish than they could handle.

To become a “fisher of men” Peter would have to learn new skills.  Peter knew how to relate to fish but could he learn how to relate to people?  Could he handle a task in which the scene was always changing?

For many of us our routines are safe havens—comfort zones.  We already know what we are to do next.  The demand-level is low.   But success in the Kingdom of God usually doesn’t attach itself to our comfort zones.   What was successful twenty years ago may not be successful today.  We know how to relate to life-long Baptists, can we learn how to relate to those for whom church is a place visited for a grandparent’s funeral?

Unless we are willing to step out of that zone of routine we will never discover what we can do to build God’s Kingdom.

We May Have to Escape the Comfort Zone Called Isolation

It was a turning point in his ministry when Jesus began to predict that he would be crucified in Jerusalem. 

Well, less than a week later another dramatic moment occurred, event known as The Transfiguration.  Listen to Mark’s account.

2 After six days Jesus took Peter, James, and John, and led them up on a high mountain by themselves to be alone. He was transformed in front of them, 3 and His clothes became dazzling, extremely white, as no launderer on earth could whiten them. 4 Elijah appeared to them with Moses, and they were talking with Jesus. 5 Then Peter said to Jesus, "Rabbi, it is good for us to be here! Let us make three tabernacles: one for You, one for Moses, and one for Elijah"-- 6 because he did not know what he should say, since they were terrified. 7 A cloud appeared, overshadowing them, and a voice came from the cloud: This is My beloved Son; listen to Him! ark 9:2-7  

The Mount of Transfiguration was the ultimate getaway.  Peter, James, and John were not only free from the stress of the traveling ministry, they had an opportunity to be alone with Jesus and a couple surprise guests—Moses and Elijah. 

Peter realized that the Mount of Transfiguration was isolated from the ugliness of the plain and the valley.  Down below there were fierce storms on the Sea of Galilee, down below there were children who were in the grip of the Evil One, down below there were crosses.  Jesus would be with them down below—for a while at least, but up here they would have all of Jesus and none of the ugliness.  Especially the ugliness called crucifixion.

Peter’s sales’ pitch was cut short when God interrupted him to say, “This is my Son, listen to him, he knows what he’s doing.”

In recent years I’ve seen an isolationist mentality among many Christians.  They seem to feel the safest response to the modern world is retreat.  Christian parents sometimes move far out of the city, trying to isolate their children from what they consider negative influences.  They take their children out of public schools, thinking they will keep them from encountering any elements of a non-Christian world-view.  Sometimes they even refuse to let their children go to Christian schools because they convinced such schools are contaminated.

They, themselves, isolate themselves from the larger world; they seek safety in a kind of evangelical ghetto.  They forget that light hidden under a basket and salt inside the shaker does no one any good.

Evangelical women of the Victorian Age often sought the safety of home and family.  The larger world was a scary place.  Some of them didn’t.  Catherine Booth walked among the poorest on London’s poor as she and her husband William founded the Salvation Army. 

When Mary Slessor died in 1915 she was far from her home in Scotland., in fact for more than forty years she had lived outside the “comfort zone” of European life.  Historian Ruth Tucker writes:

The story of Mary Slessor, as much as the life of any missionary in modern history, has been romanticized almost beyond recognition.  The image of her as a Victorian lady dressed in high-necked, ankle-length flowing dresses, pompously escorted through the African rain forest in a canoe by painted tribal warriors, is far removed from the reality of the barefooted, scantily clad, red-haired, working-class woman, who lived African-style in a mud hovel…

In her four decades as a missionary Mary Slessor rescued abandoned children, befriended outcast women, settled disputes, fought brutal practices, opened the way to other missionaries, and won the respect of African and British alike.  In fact, she became the first woman vice-consul in the Empire—all of this because at the age of 27 she was willing to leave her familiar neighborhood and church to become a pioneer missionary in Calabar, Nigeria.

She escaped the place of security, her comfort zone.

Peter, of course, came down off that safe, secure mountain.  He came down off it and began a pilgrimage of miracle and grace. 

We May Have to Escape the Comfort Zone Called Respectability 

You know the story of the birth of the church on Pentecost, fifty days after the first Easter.  The disciples had been praying in Jerusalem, just as Jesus had commanded.  Then, suddenly, they received the Holy Spirit in fulfillment of the promise Jesus had made before the crucifixion.

There was the sound of a mighty wind and these commoners, these followers of a rejected, crucified teacher, began to speak in tongues they had never learned.  In loud voices they cried out praises to God for all he had done.  Even though they were in Jerusalem, the heart of Jerusalem, even though they were in the shadow of the temple, even though this was a religious holiday, many onlookers were puzzled by what was happening.  As often happens, there were a few who were convinced they had the answer.  They scoffed, “They’re drunk on cheap wine.”

Now, Pentecost was a feast day.  There would be joyous feasting to celebrate the beginning of the harvest season, but drunkenness was thoroughly condemned. 

When Peter stepped out of the comfort zone of respectability to participate in the joyous birthday of the church, he opened himself to unfair and vicious criticism.

Even today, Christians have to take care how they worship and what they say if they want to remain respectable in the eyes of observers.

Don’t misunderstand escaping the comfort zone of respectability is not living scandalously.  It’s refusing to let the non-Christian culture determine how we live.

In the eyes of many, if we want to remain respectable we must be careful that we don’t show too much enthusiasm for our faith.  It’s fine to have a nominal relationship with the church but being totally committed Christ compromises our respectability.  We open ourselves to charges of fanaticism.

Of course, guarding our respectability can rob us of the opportunity to appreciate God’s greatest gifts, especially the Gift of Himself.

At the same time, if we want to maintain the comfort of respectability, we have to watch what we say.  We’re told the listening crowd, on that Day of Pentecost, heard the disciples “declaring the wonders of God.”  Have you ever asked what the disciples were declaring?  We’re not told but I wouldn’t be surprised if some of what they said concerned Jesus Christ, his ministry and resurrection.

Maybe they spoke of how he defeated death.  Maybe they spoke of how he was the God-appointed way to salvation.  That kind of talk will raise eyebrows in any generation.  In fact, if we would maintain our respectability we should leave that kind of talk alone.

The problem is, the price for that kind of respectability is a message which speaks to no spiritual problem, which has no eternal significance.  When the non-Christian culture and the church are on friendly terms, when the church basks in respectability, you can be sure that some essential element of the Christian message is missing from its preaching.

For Peter, celebrating the greatness of God and proclaiming the gospel of the Risen Christ was worth stepping out of the comfort zone of respectability.

Frank Tillapaugh challenges churches to become “the society of gamblers for God.”  He writes, “Few of us are asked to risk our lives, but all of us are asked to risk such things as friends, reputation, job and security when we follow Jesus Christ.  Yet, whatever the risk, the truth remains that we have nothing to lose more important than being obedient to the Lord.”

So, the question becomes, Whose respect will we seek? 

We May Have to Escape the Comfort Zone Called Tradition

I’ve already talked about routine, which may be the easiest of the comfort zones to leave.  How is that different from tradition?  Routine describes how we’ve become comfortable doing something; tradition refers to doing something because that way of doing it has been passed on to us.  Tradition is much more rigid than routine.

Peter had grown since the Risen Christ had challenged his followers to go into all the world to preach the gospel.  But there remained one great comfort zone:  the tradition which was reflected in Peter’s adherence to the Jewish dietary laws.  Those laws—which were linked to Old Testament teachings—had been so reinterpreted that they were used to forbid any social association with non-Jews.

Even though God gave Peter a vision to help him see that this was wrong, Peter was still reluctant.  That vision had to be repeated twice!  At last, Peter agreed to go to the house of the gentile Cornelius to share the gospel.

For Peter to go to the house of Cornelius he had to leave that comfort zone of rigid tradition.  It was tough!  Tough, but he did it.

The person who is bound by such rigid traditions expects to be judged by others; Peter was.  The person who is willing to move out of the comfort zone of tradition must be willing to say, “I care more about what God thinks of me than what others think of me.”

Do you have a comfort zone of tradition?  You do if you think God is only interested in people who are just like you.  You do if you think God can only use people just like you—people who sing like you do, who pray like you do, who read the translation you read, who dress like you do…. 

When Mary Slessor laid aside the heavy Victorian dresses worn by women back home in Britain in favor of the simple cotton dresses of the Nigerian women some missionaries accused her of “going native.”  Yet, that simple act broke down walls of suspicion and distrust, allowing her to speak to the Africans as she never had before.

The tradition which had kept the early Christians from reaching out to the Gentiles seemed to be rooted in the Bible.   It really wasn’t.  God had intended the dietary laws to distinguish his people from the rest of the world, distinguish them so they could more easily fulfill the task of being his witnesses in the world.  Instead, his people distorted the dietary laws in a way which made it impossible to be a witness to the outsiders.  It took a God-led traditionalist, who was willing to get out of his comfort zone, to inspire others to abandon that tradition.  But when they did the world was turned upside down. 

Conclusion

There’s a common thread holding together all these stories from Peter’s life.  Each time he was called to step out of a comfort zone Christ was there to encourage, challenge, and guide him.  We have the same hope.

If we who call ourselves Christ’s people want to do his work in the world, we may have to leave some of our cherished comfort zones.  Peter left some of his cherished comfort zones.  Because he did his life was transformed.  If we’re willing to do the same, Christ will transform our lives. And,  being transformed, we will make a difference.







[1]   I’ve decided to use the term “Indian” instead of “Native American” since the former is a term preferred by many of those who belong to the group, including activist Russell Means.