Saturday, March 11, 2017

Praying to Grow




"Up, Up, and Away", a Broadway musical which appeared several years ago, explored the psychological side of Superman's personality. Judging by the spate of superhero movies, we seem to want to run all such heroes through analysis but that’s another story.  Anyway, near the end of the play, the Man of Steel says, "I'm a freak. "
Sometimes, I think we have come to think of spiritually mature Christians as 'freaks.' They seem to be endowed with powers beyond those of "ordinary Christians. "
Just as we know the ability to fly is beyond us, we have come to believe that spiritual maturity is beyond us.
As a consequence we neither pray for ourselves nor for others so grow spiritually.
Of course, we continue to pray.  Every Sunday, most church bulletins include a notice concerning members and friends who are experiencing some sort of physical difficulty; they're there because we believe people experiencing these kinds of problems need our prayers. The prayers we offer on behalf of another are called "intercessory prayers"; praying for others is called "intercession." It is an important ministry. But it isn't limited to praying for the physical needs of others.
Paul, reflecting his great devotion to all of God's new people, shows us that intercession for God's people can include praying for their spiritual needs. Look at Ephesians 3:14-21.
Remember, Paul was praying for a group of ordinary Christians at Ephesus.  He wanted them to attain their potential as the new people of God.  Paul prayed that the Ephesians might receive the resources for Christian maturity.   In so doing he is showing us how to pray for one another.
You don't have to be born in a church, have a degree in theology, know the Bible so well you can recall the wives of every one of the prophets, in order to become a spiritually mature Christian.

Because we may approach God for whatever we need to attain spiritual maturity, we ought to pray for ourselves and others to reach this goal.


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WHEN WE PRAY FOR SPIRITUAL MATURITY FOR OURSELVES OR OTHERS
WE NEED TO START AT THE RIGHT PLACE (VS 14-15)



Paul's ministry consisted not only in speaking to God's people on behalf of God, but also of speaking to God on behalf of the people.
Paul knew God alone could lead these Christians toward spiritual maturity.   I have serious doubts about the efficacy of programs promising spiritual maturity in thirty days.  There are no tricks, shortcuts, or gimmicks to help us achieve the peace, insight, and vision God wants us to have.  Some of the false teachers Paul would encounter promised such but the apostle warned against it. 
He says, “I fall to my knees an pray to the Father.”   The usual stance in prayer was standing; the fact that he falls on his knees suggests the intensity of his prayer.  Picture Paul kneeling on the hard, cold prison floor, his mind on the needs of that church in Ephesus. He seemed to be saying, "I don't want my Ephesian friends to miss anything you have for them. "
I like the implications of this.  In prison, Paul wasn't able to go to them and preach or teach. Instead he seized the opportunity to avail himself of the access Christians have to God and prayed for them. (Vs. 12)   Even though you may be separated from those fellow-believers you care about, you can still pray for them.  Maybe age has limited your ability to get out, you can still pray.
Like Paul, we should approach God with awe.  Paul was reverent.  That reverence created an attitude of submission and humility.
Sometimes our approach to God suggests we think of Him as a sorority sister or old army buddy.
Instead, we should come before God with the attitude expressed in the words of the hymn:  “only Thou art holy—there is none beside Thee.

Like Paul, we should approach God with anticipation. Notice how Paul describes God.  He is “the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name.” (NIV)  In the Greek, there appears to be a play on words in these verses.  God is “the Father” (patēr in Greek) of every “family” (patria in Greek) on earth.  Out of all the tribes and peoples in the world, God has created a new “tribe.”  God is the Father of the whole Christian family, a family made up of all nationalities and races. He made one new people--carrying his Name--out of all the peoples of the earth.  God is not to be associated with just one race or nationality; his fatherly care transcends that. The God who initiated the great scheme resulting in the creation of one new people is the Father to whom we pray.
Keeping that in mind, as we pray we should recall this Father is eager to see all of his children grow toward maturity.  So, why would he keep any good from us?


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WHEN WE PRAY FOR SPIRITUAL MATURITY FOR OURSELVES OR OTHERS WE SHOULD PRAY WITH THE RIGHT OBJECTIVES.



We should seek spiritual strength.   Paul says, “I pray that fro his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit.” (NLT)
 Paul prayed for them to be strengthened because he knew that living for Christ can be difficult. The word for “strengthened” is "endynamited."  The idea is that of a power capable of achieving what needed to be achieved.
 In making this request Paul draws upon God's "unlimited resources".  
Earthly bank accounts are limited; God's reserves are unlimited.  Right now I can write you a check for $1,000,000; if you need more I can write you a check for more. I have no problem writing the check, but you will have a problem when you take it to the bank.
God's resources never run out.  He is never overdrawn.  He can give us what we need to face our particular challenges.
 That strength is manifested in our lives through the Holy Spirit. The Church was born in an explosion of the Spirit's power and had been conquering the Roman world for Christ though power of the Spirit. That same power is available to us and for us.
 It is important to note that Paul asks for this strength to be manifested in the "inner being" of his readers. J. B. Phillips: "the strength of the Spirit's inner reinforcement.”
Baptist scholar E. Y. Mullins explains that "The inward man is our total inner nature: the intellect, emotions, and will."
 Strength for our physical being is important, strength for our inner being is more important. The distinction is important because the outer being may appear to be strong while the inner being is weak; or the outer being may appear to be ready for collapse while the inner being remains calm and strong.
Former heavyweight champion Riddick Bowe gave up his goal of becoming a Marine after just three days of boot camp. His manager explained: "It has to do with a guy who's 29, who's a multimillionaire, who's had control over his life ... coming and going whenever he pleased, losing control. That was a big culture shock-something very hard for Riddick to deal with." The problem wasn't one of outer strength; it was one of inner strength.
To live for Christ you need strength on the inside.

2We should pray for Christ to continually shape our lives.
 When Paul prayed for Christ to permanently occupy their hearts, he was speaking of Christ's having an impact on all that they were. He wanted the Ephesians to know both Christ's saving presence and his sovereign presence.  Christians should know Christ as redeemer and ruler.
 Spiritual maturity is marked by a growing consecration to Christ as he takes a greater possession of our lives.
The word "dwell" suggest the image of a military commander occupying territory. That may be a frightening prospect to some. They think of the Nazi occupation of France, the Japanese occupation of China, events marked by cruelty and oppression. Think instead of the American occupation of Japan, marked by generosity and new freedom.

We should pray to know the dimensions of Christ's boundless love.
Ever aiming to make their new oneness a reality, Paul prayed that their relationship with God and with each other might be rooted and established in love.   
Such knowledge of God's love will lead to confidence.

Such  knowledge of God's love will lead to a rich fellowship.

The experience of Christ's love is one we share with all the saints (18a). The child who comes from a home filled with love is better prepared to face the rough and tumble of the real world. The Christian coming from a church filed with love and support is better able to face the challenges of a hostile spiritual environment outside the church, an environment that fosters materialism, racism, hatred, cynicism, fear.
Since we will never discover the boundaries of that love, we are spurred to grow in love.
 The more we are immersed in and transformed by the love of God, the more we become like the loving Christ.
 As these prayers are answered we will move toward the goal of Christian maturity: to be like God in every possible way. (''And so, at last, you will be filled up with God Himself.”)  Paul wants us to experience the fullness of Christ’s love not just so we will feel loved but so we will be transformed by that love.  Again, E. Y. Mullins helps us understand what Paul has in view: "'The fullness of God' means our nature possessed completely by the energy of God and transformed completely into the likeness of Christ."



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WHEN WE PRAY FOR SPIRITUAL MATURITY FOR OURSELVES OR OTHERS WE SHOULD REMEMBER TO PRAISE THE GOD OF GRACIOUSNESS
(20-21)

Paul's praise reflects confidence that God would act on behalf of his people to help them grow.
So, too, we should have confidence in God's capacity to meet our needs, He is not limited by our lack of vision.
We should have confidence in God's willingness to help us toward growth. He is more willing for us to grow than we are.
God's power is working in us. We need his power. Christian maturity is not self-improvement; it is the work of God in us.
We don't pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps because we don't have boots. We cooperate by letting God work in us.
To  degree, the hardest part for us is getting out of God’s way.

Such praise ought to mark every Christian community.
The God who redeems should be praised for providing salvation. The God who reconciles should be praised for bringing making his people one.
The God who renews should be praised for leading his people toward growth.
In all our praying, do we remember to praise God for his work for us and in us?   The work he is already doing.


Any of you can move on to genuine Christlikeness, to the real sign Christian maturity.

The resources are available to every Christian.

Paul has shown us the way to approach God for ourselves and for others.          
Approach God as the Source of our maturity.
Approach God with the longing to become more like him.
Approach God with praise for what he has done and will do in your life.

So begin to pray for spiritual maturity with anticipation.  And, as you pray for yourself, remember to pray for me.