Friday, May 8, 2015

Caught in the Swirl of Life


I Thessalonians 5:25-28

Have you seen the large Nationwide Insurance sign on the side a building in downtown Columbus?  It stirred some interest when it first appeared because the man on the sign bears a striking resemblance to a prominent Columbus businessman.  The sign, which is two or three stories high, depicts a man and a woman in the kind of embrace you might see on the cover of a lurid romance novel.  However, instead of the man being the epitome of youth, the poster depicts him as a wrinkled, grey-haired older man.  The message, “Life comes at you fast.”
I don’t know whether or not the sign is a kind of inside joke, but I do know its message is true.  Life does come at you fast.
The Thessalonians certainly knew that.  Many of them had apparently expected Jesus to return within a relatively short time after the founding of the church.  It didn’t happen.  Instead, life—you know, what happens when you’re making other plans—happened.  Friends and loved ones died.  The church faced trial.  Economic pressures, due in part to the refusal of some to work, were making it hard to take care of the truly needy.  Life was coming at them fast.  It was swirling all around them.
Paul’s final words remind us of what we should do when we are caught in the swirl of life.  Remembering God’s faithfulness allows us to survive the changes and challenges of life.  The counsel Paul gives applies to a church, a family, an individual, and the workplace. 
[In his reflections on I Thessalonians Eugene Peterson, translator of The Message, says; “Paul wrote from a community to a community.” These final verses make that clear.]

When Caught in the Swirl of life Remember to Pray for Others.  (25)
  Earlier in the letter (1:2f), Paul mentioned the concerted prayers he and his associates were offering for the Thessalonians.  He had just offered another beautiful prayer for the Thessalonians and, now, he asks for their prayers.  It was a quiet reminder that he considered them his spiritual peers.
They were relatively new believers.  They had much to learn.  They had made some errors of judgment in the past.  Still, he believed their prayers could make a difference.  William Barclay commented, “It is a wonderful thing that the greatest saint of them all should feel that he was strengthened by the prayers of the humblest Christians.”
  Paul did not believe he was spiritually self-sufficient;  he treasured the prayers of others.  He was aware of his own shortcomings and knew he needed God’s grace to do his work. 
When the Thessalonians prayed for Paul, he would be blessed.  At the same time, when the Thessalonians prayed for Paul, they would be blessed.
When life is swirling around us, there’s a great danger of becoming self-centered, of thinking only of ourselves.  That’s true for both a church and for an individual.  We become ingrown. [Had Paul been writing today, he might have said, “Remember, not everything is about you.” A cliché, that phrase is good advice for lots of people, especially those of my generation. All of us know people who ask, “How are you,” merely as the culturally acceptable prelude to telling you how they are.  You’re barely past the first words of your answer before they start telling you about their situation.  Yes, I know we are to “weep with those who weep” but some people amaze you at the things they weep over.
Of course, forgetting that not everything is about you leads to other mischief. I’m convinced many skirmishes in the “worship wars” are fought by those who forget.  I have a friend who attended a new church.  He hated the music.  It was loud.  It was fast.  It was played on guitar, base, and keyboard—not an organ.  It was not traditional.  He said that after a few moments of fuming he began to look around, especially at the younger worshippers. “I realized,” he said, “their hearts were being touched by the music. And suddenly it was okay.”  He had remembered that not everything was about him.]
Learning to pray for others helps us break out of the narrow world bounded by our own concerns. 
Here’s Robert L. Kahn:  “Prayer is a way of lifting ourselves, of getting a higher look, of transcending self.  In prayer one sees life as God sees it, and relates his own little life and his own little needs to the needs and life of humanity.”
Then too, when we pray for others we remind ourselves we are linked to what God is doing in the larger world.  A church may see itself as small, without influence, and, from one perspective such an assessment may be perfectly correct, but when that church prays for others who are doing God’s work in distant places, that church becomes a partner in whatever God-given success they enjoy.
When Caught in the Swirl of Life Remember to be Civil to Others.  (26)
Here's a verse that calls on us to understand cultural differences.  This command made complete sense to the Greeks and Jews hearing Paul’s words.  In their culture, a greeting often included a kiss.  That this was a "holy" kiss was not to suggest any of the believers were taking the practice too far but to distinguish it from mere social ritual.  The gesture was to be sincere and warm. 
By the mid-second century the “kiss of peace,” as it was called had become a regular feature of Christian worship.  It preceded the Lord’s Supper.  Apparently, both sexes originally shared this kiss on the cheek.  Men kissed men and women; women kissed women and men.  But by the fourth century, church authorities enacted rules saying men must kiss only men and women must kiss only women. [The reason for this restriction probably reflects a concern about appearances.  A persistent accusation leveled against Christians claimed they were guilty of immorality; this reflected a distorted understanding of the command to “love one another.”]
  Some translations have attempted to place the command into a contemporary Western culture.  The New Living Translation renders the verse without reference to any action, "Greet all the brothers and sisters in Christian love."  Others, like J. B. Phillips translates it, "Give a handshake all round.”  The older Living Bible does much the same with, "Shake hands for me with all the brothers there."
Michael Holmes comments, “Any culturally accepted form of greeting, whether a kiss on each cheek, a hug, a hearty handshake, or whatever, that conveys warmth and symbolizes unity would likely be acceptable to Paul.”
Many of my books are used and their former owners have sometimes written in the margins.  Next to that comment by Holmes the former owner wrote, “people don’t like hugs.”  Of course, that former owner meant, “I don’t like hugs.”  How very human to attempt to transfer our tastes to others to justify our own rejection or acceptance of some behavior.
I can’t help but wonder if that comment came from someone who didn’t want to get close to any fellow-Christians.  Paul would probably understand that some people aren’t “touchy feely” people—no, I don’t know the Greek for that—but he wouldn’t condone any Christian isolating himself or herself from fellow believers.
I want to offer two observations.
First, Paul was asking the Thessalonians to demonstrate simple civility.  Sometimes, when believers have been associated with each other a long time that is forgotten.  We overstep our bounds.  We don’t treat others with the respect they deserve.  We may push someone rather than allow him or her to make his or her own minds us about something.  We refuse to take “no” for an answer.  We become pushy.
On other occasions, we may start thinking that our opinion is the only one with any weight or value.
Paul would have us treat one another with simple decency and respect.
Second, this brief verse reminds us that some biblical statements must be interpreted in the light of a different time and place.
   Most commentators know this command must be reshaped to fit a different culture.  This raises the question if it might be necessary and expedient to reinterpret other commands in the light of cultural differences.  [For instance, should Paul’s insistence that women not teach be understood as a universal command or as one that might change with changes in the culture?]
When Caught in the Swirl of Life Remember to Nurture Others.  (27)
Here's a simple reminder about how Christian leaders communicated with congregations.  Letters had to be read to the people, perhaps more than once since some might not be present for the first reading. 
   Paul’s reference to reading the letter to all the Christians has caused some to wonder if there was a division in the church.  More likely, he’s simply calling on the leaders to make sure the greatest number of people hears the letter.  This was so important to the Apostle that he took the pen from the scribe’s hand to write the final sentences himself.
F. F. Bruce has some interesting comments on the verse as he reconstructs the situation in Thessalonica and in other churches.  The letter would be read aloud because many of the Christians were illiterate.  Most likely, the leaders would read the letter during the regular worship service since many members of the congregation probably had limited free time and possibly couldn’t come for a special meeting where the letter would be read.  In time, reading a letter aloud during the worship service meant the document had the status of Scripture; thus, reading it implied canonicity.  Again, in time, what could be read during the worship service was limited.  Any notion that the early church considered a document to be inspired just because it spoke of Jesus or contained moral instruction is unfounded.
More important, Paul wanted to make sure all the believers in the church heard his instructions.  E. J. Richard, says that in the letter there is “something for everyone, something which troubled, doubtful, working, and attentive members need to hear and to repeat to one another as exhortation….  Public reading of the letter in the presence of every brother and sister assures that each member of the community is either admonished, encouraged, or assisted with patience, love and concord.”
Even when things are tough, perhaps, especially when things are tough, the church has something to say.  With life swirling around us, we need to continue to share our world-view, to challenge those who don’t know Christ and to encourage those who do.
When Caught in the Swirl of Life Remember We All Need God’s Grace. (28)

The sentence is something of a standard closing, but still not a mere formality. 
Individual churches and congregations must depend upon the grace of the Lord to survive and thrive.
   Grace enables us to enter the church; grace enables us to be the church.
Conclusion
 Things hadn’t worked out the way the Thessalonians had planned.  As Paul concludes his letter to them, he doesn’t mock or berate them.  He reminds them to recall the faithfulness of God and to continue praying, to continue loving one another, to continue encouraging each other.