Saturday, February 7, 2015

A Lesson on Prayer



I Thessalonians 3:9-13

Once again Paul speaks of his fundamental admiration for the Thessalonian church.  Timothy’s report had shown his great fear that his work among them “had been a waste of time” was baseless.  As we will see, the church wasn’t perfect but the problems could be dealt with by promoting sound theology and morality rooted in their identity as God’s People.


I Thess. 3:9

For how can we thank God enough for you, for all the joy we feel because of you before our God

God was at work in the Thessalonian situation, creating a body of believers whose very lifestyle brought joy to the apostle. The thanks ultimately went to God. 
This is a reminder that any church making a difference in the lives of people, reaching the lost for Christ, enriching the pilgrimages of believers, and showing God’s love in practical ways is doing so because of God’s enablement.  No church can claim to have done these things in its own power and ability.
We are also reminded that leaders may properly feel joy as those churches demonstrate their commitment to Christ.  No, not every church brings joy to the hearts of their leaders but, by God’s grace, many do.  Some of those churches are new; some are older (reminding us that the tendency to discount the value of older churches is hardly wise).  Some are small; some are large.  Some are in affluent communities; some are in storefronts in distressed neighborhoods.

I Thess. 3:10

We pray very hard night and day that we may see you again face to face, so that we may equip you with whatever is lacking in your faith

Consider the Amplified Bible’s rendering of this verse.  It underscores the feeling behind Paul’s words:  “[And we] continue to pray especially and with most intense earnestness night and day that we may see you face to face and mend and make good whatever may be imperfect and lacking in your faith.”
My wife and I love “face-timing” with our son, daughter-in-law, and grandson.  Skype and FaceTime are wonderful gifts for families that must be separated by hundreds of miles.  But however enjoyable these experiences are, it just isn’t the same as being able to actually sit on the floor and play Legos with our grandson.  In the same way, Paul still longed for a face-to-face encounter with these believers.  He could and did do much good with his letters but being able to sit with the congregation or have a personal moment with a church leader or grieving believer offered something a letter didn’t offer.  In those circumstances, he could correct anything that might be amiss with their faith, he could pray with the confused widow or widower; he could answer questions he might not easily address in a letter.
But for now, though he had heard of their commitment, he also knew they were not without problems.  Confusion and error had wormed its way into the church.  This letter would have to substitute for a visit.
There was intensity behind Paul’s praying.  One translation even suggests they were “beseeching” (Young’s) for an opportunity to return to Thessalonica.  This was important to Paul and his team.  Though their list of “prayer concerns” may have changed each day, an opportunity to return to this city always had a place on the list.  Was this prayer answered?  So far as the record shows, there is no unambiguous reference to Paul’s returning to Thessalonica.  However, Acts mentions other occasions when he returned to Macedonia (20:1,3).  It may be inferred that he visited the Thessalonian church on those occasions.  But these appear to have been as long as four or five years after he wrote this letter.
Notice that Paul left the answer to his prayer with God.  He says, “Now may God our Father himself and our Lord Jesus direct our way to you.”  The New Jerusalem Bible has an interesting translation:  "May God...ease our path to you."  Perhaps this was written from weariness, Paul longed for an opportunity to see them but was weary of the struggle.  While this was Paul’s personal desire, his overriding desire was to do God’s will.  So, his prayer leaves the matter in God's hands.
The implication is clear:  Paul was leaving the when and how concerning his return to Thessalonica with God.  He trusted God’s providence.  That trust involved the recognition that God knew what was best for Paul and the Thessalonians.
While Paul longed to be among the Thessalonian believers, that desire was temporarily denied.  God had other work for him.  For the time being that work did not include personal ministry among the Thessalonians. But God didn’t need Paul to take care of the church in Thessalonica.  If Paul wasn’t in Thessalonica the Spirit was.  And the Spirit could correct and comfort the believers there—using, no doubt, Paul’s letters along with the work and words of other lesser-known Spirit-inspired leaders (cf I Thess. 5:12-23). According to M. N. Tod the Christians there would eventually earn Thessalonica the title “the Orthodox city” and would be a powerful force in converting the barbarians who would invade the area in the coming centuries.
Here’s a lesson for all of us.  Although Paul was praying for all the right reasons, his prayer was  not quickly answered; as time passed we would understand should he have wondered if his prayer would forever go unanswered.  We sometimes experience that.  When we do, we may either enter into a time a guilty introspection, trying to find some sin we’ve overlooked that is keeping God from answering our prayer; or we begin to doubt the efficacy of prayer.  Neither response is especially healthy.  (Yes, we sometimes do need to examine our lives but unanswered prayer isn’t always evidence of unconfessed sin.)  When those prayers seem to go unanswered, we need to remember that as much as we love those we are praying for, God loves them more.  As much as we long to be somewhere to fix a problem, God is already there and can fix it better than we can.


I Thess. 3:12

May the Lord greatly increase your love a for each other and for all people, just as we love you.

Of course, Paul didn’t merely pray for himself.  He prayed for the Thessalonians.
His prayer was that they might have an abounding love.  Weymouth renders it as "a growing and glowing love."  The notion of this love increasing to the point of overflowing is picked up by several translations.  The Message pictures Paul’s request this way:  “may the Master pour on the love so it fills your lives and splashes over on everyone around you.”  The word translated "abound" is from perisseuo which Strong sees as "to superabound (in quantity and quality)".   The Greek suggests “more than enough” and “above and beyond.”  In short, Paul was praying that the Thessalonians might have more than enough love to go around.
The focus of this love would be twofold:
--Love demonstrated toward one another within the fellowship.
--Love demonstrated toward those outside the fellowship. ("toward all men" or "for all people").

            Later in the letter, Paul will elaborate on this twofold love even further.
Both loves are needed for a church to be successful.  Something is wrong when a church has love only for its own fellowship; it becomes inward and insular.  It is spiritually truncated.
Yet, when a church professes love for the whole world but demonstrates no love within the "fellowship," the impact of its witness is crippled.  Its claims to represent Christ are invalidated by its behavior.
Paul doesn't seem to be suggesting that the Thessalonians had fallen prey to either one of these problems but he must know the danger any church faces, especially when it struggles for its very existence.
Was this prayer answered?  Centuries later the Thessalonian church was still strong.  It was especially effective in reaching out to the barbarian hordes that invaded Greece.  Tod writes, “For centuries the city remained one of the chief strongholds of Christianity…not only by the tenacity and vigor of its resistance to the successive attacks of various barbarous races, but also by being largely responsible for their conversion to Christianity.”  Such success could not have been the work of a church filled with division and strife.
As important as strategy and programs may be in the work of evangelism, without love no church will reach unbelievers with the gospel.  In the United States, Christians have a special opportunity to interact with people from all over the world.  In some cases, these individuals are from nations that forbid the open preaching of the gospel; others among these visitors are from cultures that are rabidly secular, where any religion but especially Christianity is looked upon with disdain.  The church needs the double-barreled love Paul prayed for the

I Thess. 3:13

Then your hearts will be strong, blameless, and holy in the presence of God, who is our Father, when our Lord Jesus appears with all his saints.

Such love has the effect of making the congregation stronger to the degree that it will become more and more holy, faultless, and without in God's eyes.  The linking of holiness and love is important.  Holiness goes beyond do's and don'ts; holiness is manifested in our attitudes toward others, both inside the church and outside.
Jesus linked his famed call to "be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect" to the demonstration of love.  (Matthew 5:43-48)  God's love blesses the good and the evil; our love ought to extend to the good and the evil, to our friends and to our enemies.  If it doesn't, we're in no way different from the world around us.
Such love cannot be self-generated.  It is the fruit of the Spirit’s work within us (Gal. 5:22).  This is why Paul makes this broad love the subject of his prayer for the Thessalonians.  Only God could have produced this love within them and us.

The presence of such holy love prepares us for the coming of Jesus when we will join with "all his saints."  In fact, the "communion of saints" would be impossible without love that transcends race, nationality, and social status.
In the remainder of the letter Paul will discuss several themes raised in these verses.  For now, it’s good for every church and every Christian to hope that somewhere, someone is praying for them.