Fifty
years ago this summer a song was released that would become one of the
best-selling songs of 1967 and that would inspire speculations that are still
being discussed on the internet. It was
Bobbie Gentry’s Ode to Billie Joe. Now, I don’t intend to discuss Billie Joe’s
motivations for jumping off Tallahatchie Bridge or what he and the girl who
looked a lot like the narrator may have been throwing off that bridge a few
days before. I want to draw your attention
to a line found late in the song, in the verse in which the narrator talks
about the year following Billie Joe’s suicide.
She says,
There
was a virus going ‘round, papa caught it and he died last spring,
And now mama doesn’t seem to wanna do much of anything.
And now mama doesn’t seem to wanna do much of anything.
Many
of us know widows and widowers whose lives have seemingly stopped after the
death of their partner. Marriages that
survived sicknesses, separations due to work or war, difficult financial times
have been ended by death.
Of
course, death doesn’t just ravage marriages.
Death’s impact reaches into every relationship. This story, found in John 11, tells of its
impact on a family Jesus knew.
Here’s
how it begins.
Now a certain man was ill, Lazarus of Bethany,
the village of Mary and her sister Martha. It was Mary who anointed the Lord
with ointment and wiped his feet with her hair, whose brother Lazarus was ill.
So the sisters sent to him, saying, “Lord, he whom you love is ill.” But when
Jesus heard it he said, “This illness does not lead to death. It is for the
glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it.”
Now
Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So, when he heard that Lazarus
was ill, he stayed two days longer in the place where he was. Then after this
he said to the disciples, “Let us go to Judea again.”
The
disciples said to him, “Rabbi, the Jews were just now seeking to stone you, and
are you going there again?”
Jesus
answered, “Are there not twelve hours in the day? If anyone walks in the day,
he does not stumble, because he sees the light of this world. But if anyone
walks in the night, he stumbles, because the light is not in him.” After saying
these things, he said to them, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep, but I go
to awaken him.”
The
disciples said to him, “Lord, if he has fallen asleep, he will recover.” Now
Jesus had spoken of his death, but they thought that he meant taking rest in
sleep.
Then
Jesus told them plainly, “Lazarus has died, and for your sake I am glad that I
was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him.”
So
Thomas, called the Twin, said to his fellow disciples, “Let us also go, that we
may die with him.”
Death is an intruder, isn’t it? Only the very young
among us have escaped the grief it brings. We know such losses are inevitably a
part of our human experience, but we would still like to stiff-arm
the death angel as long as possible. We want to hold on to that friend, that relative,
that loved-one just a little while longer. Only when our loved-one is experiencing
prolonged suffering or unrelenting degeneration do we reluctantly welcome their
death as a release from their trial. Even then, if they could somehow be wrested
out of death’s clutches and be restored to health we would grasp the miracle, the
reversal.
That probably explains the desparate message to
Jesus sent by Mary and Martha. He was Lazarus’ friend, he was their friend. All
the fame his work was generating hadn’t changed that. If anyone could do something
about their brother’s illness, Jesus could. But he didn’t.
Instead, he waited until it was too late, waited
until nothing could be done, waited until Lazarus was dead.
Jesus was busy on the east side of Jordan when the
message came that Lazarus was sick. His response? After assuring his disciples that
the illness would not end in death, he stayed on for more days. Then, when he told
them it was time to go to Bethany he also told them Lazarus had died. Actually,
he told them Lazarus was ”asleep”, which the disciples misunderstood to mean that
their friend was getting better. He wasn’t. Jesus had to explain that Lazarus had
died.
There’s a good chance Lazarus was already dead by
the time the messenger had found Jesus to give him the sisters’ message. I can’t
help but wonder, did the messenger return to Bethany with the good news that Lazarus’s
illness was not fatalonly to be told, “He’s already dead.” I don’t know. This
story raises a lot of questions.
Why did Jesus wait two days before setting out to
Bethany, so long that when he arrived Lazarus had already been dead for four days?
Keep in mind a couple of things as we look at this
portion of the story:
The disciples knew, even if Mary and Martha didn’t
know, that geography didn’t limit Jesus’ power to heal. He could have told the messenger
to go back to Bethany confident that Lazarus was well.
The commitment and faith demonstrated by the
people in this story amazes us. Even old
“doubting” Thomas seemed willing to face death with Jesus.
All the pain
and grief experienced, all the tears shed during those few days had a purpose which
the participants in these events weren’t quite ready to understand.
Jesus defined that purpose early on. ”This sickness
will not end in death. Instead, it will be for God’s glory. This will be used to
give glory to the Son of God.”
We might be tempted at this point to say, ”But it
did end in death. Only two days after this Jesus, himself, told the disciples that
Lazarus was dead.” But, remember, sometimes God’s activities remind us of the old baseball
truism: ”It ain’t over ’til it’s over.”
A byproduct of this whole experience would be a
healthier, stronger faith for the disciples. That’s behind Jesus’ statement as they
set out to Bethany: ”I want you to believe.”
We can only imagine what was going through the disciples’
minds as they walked along those roads toward the suburb of Jerusalem. The authorities
were out to get Jesus. The disciples knew they were on their way to one funeral,
would there soon
be another?
Now when Jesus came, he found that Lazarus
had already been in the tomb four days. Bethany was near Jerusalem, about two
miles off, and many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to console them
concerning their brother. So when Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went
and met him, but Mary remained seated in the house.
Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been
here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know that whatever you ask
from God, God will give you.” Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise
again.”
Martha said to him, “I know that he will
rise again in the resurrection on the last day.”
Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection
and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and
everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?”
She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that
you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.”
Jewish burial customs involved placing the dead
in their graves on the day they died if there
were enough time. Jewish people follow the same practice today. Jews have the most intense period of public mourning
following the funeral.
“Sitting shiva” refers to this period of mourning
by the survivors , a period which lasts some seven days.
The mention of four days is significant because
some rabbis taught one could possibly revive
after the third day. This may have reflected experiences in which someone thought
to be dead had been misdiagnosed in those days of poor medical protocol. In any
case, the fourth day would have been a stressful time for the family and friends.
There were still many mourners present when Jesus
and his followers arrived.
Upon hearing Jesus was there, Martha went to him.
Her first words to him were:
Lord, my brother would never have died, if you
had been here.
But, even now, I know if you ask God, He would
give you anything.
Is there a note of frustration in those words? Perhaps.
But, listen closely. Do you heara testimony of faith? Was she hoping that Jesus
would do the incredible, do the impossible? If so, she couldn’t bring herself to
frame the words.
Jesus responds, ”Your brother will rise from death.”
”Yes, Lord,” Martha said, ”I know he will rise up
in that great resurrection.” Most Jews accepted the notion of the great resurrection
of the righteous dead sometime
in the future. The Sadducees
were the only major group which denied the very con-cept of resurrection. Perhaps
Martha, after monetarily allowing herself to wish for a miracle, realized she would
have to be content with the hope which helped so many through times of grief-a hope
for which no one had any tangible evidence-the hope that God would one day say the
word which would overrule death.
Jesus responds to her with one more of the ”I am”
statements found in John’s Gospel. He said, ”I am the resurrection and the life.”
Jesus was saying, Don’t think of the resurrection as just some far off event in
the distant future. Think of the resurrection as embodied in a Person. When you
trust that Person, commit your life to that Person, come to really know that Person,
you begin to experience the Resurrection in the here and now. Death will lose its
power.
Then Jesus asked, ”Do you believe this?” Jesus wasn’t
asking this question of a learned theologian, he was asking a woman. This was a
woman he had spent time teaching when most rabbis would have felt they were wasting
their time teaching a woman. How would she respond? After all, the gospels present
Mary, her sister, as the reflective, contemplative one; Martha was the typeA sister,
always worried about the many details a hostess has to worry about. What would this
practical woman say?
She said, ”Yes, Lord, I still believe you are the
Messiah .... ” I still believe. I know my brother is dead and buried. I know you
could have prevented it. I don’t know why you didn’t keep it from happening. I don’t
know what the future holds for my sister and me. But, I know I still believe.”
What had Jesus said to his disciples when they were
still east of the Jordan? He said, ”I want you to believe.” They had spent so much
time with him and there was still something deficient in their faith. Martha had
experienced loss and disappointment but she could say, ”I still believe.”
We’re not told Jesus’ response to Martha’s testimony
of faith but apparently he
asked her to invite Mary
to join them.
When she had said this, she went and called
her sister Mary, saying in private, “The Teacher is here and is calling for
you.” And when she heard it, she rose quickly and went to him.
Now Jesus had not yet come into the village,
but was still in the place where Martha had met him. When the Jews who were
with her in the house, consoling her, saw Mary rise quickly and go out, they
followed her, supposing that she was going to the tomb to weep there. Now when
Mary came to where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet, saying to him,
“Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”
When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who
had come with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly
troubled. And he said, “Where have you laid him?” They said to him, “Lord, come
and see.”
Jesus wept.
So the Jews said, “See how he loved him!” But
some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man also have
kept this man from dying?”
Martha goes to bring Mary to meet Jesus, prompting
a crowd of mourners at the house to follow them. They thought she was going to the
grave. They probably didn’t expect to see the somewhat famous teacher from Galilee
waiting to talk to the grieving sisters.
Notice that Mary greeted Jesus with the very statement
Martha had used, “Lord, if you had been here my brother would not have died!” Can’t
you picture the sisters, in the lonely hours since Lazarus’ death repeatedly saying
to themselves, ”Why didn’t he come? Why didn’t he respond to our plea? Why didn’t
he drop what he was doing had hurry here? If he had been here, Lazarus .... ” It’s
the rare Christian who hasn’t asked a similar question. Why didn’t God stop that
drunk’s car? Why didn’t God keep my job safe? Why didn’t God heal my friend? The
questions are almost as infinite as individual experience, but even as we ask them
we know that the only conclusion may be, ”I don’t know why he didn’t, but I know
he could have.”
There’s no reason to believe that one sister had
more faith than the other-their statements were the same and, so, the faith which
prompted them might be the same. Nor is there reason to believe one sister felt
the pain of Lazarus’ death more than the other. Yet, we are allowed to look more
closely at Mary’s grief.
She was crying. Actually, the word suggests a loud,
soul-wrenching crying.
Jesus was deeply moved by her pain.
So, when she made her statement, instead of discussing
the resurrection with her, Jesus simply asked to be taken to the tomb.
At this point something happens which has capt ured
the imaginations of John’s
readers for centuries. The
Authorized Version simply says, ”Jesus wept.”
The other references to crying in this chapter speak
of something loud and demonstrative. This word suggests something much quieter.
It means ”tears came to his eyes.” Why had Jesus wept. We can’t give a dogmatic
answer, but I think it may have been out of sympathy for every Mary and Martha,
for every person who felt the weight of grief weighing upon them.
When the onlookers saw those tears, their response
was mixed. Some believed he was demonstrating his great love for Lazarus. Others,
contemptuously reminded one another that he could have done something to stop the
tragedy if he had wanted to. They belonged to that camp which believe it knows precisely
how God must act in every situation.
This kind of murmuring was still going on when they arrived at the tomb. When Jesus came to the grave, again he was deeply
moved in his heart. It was a cave with a large stone placed in front of it.
Suddenly things start happening quickly. Lazarus’
body, as often was the case, had been placed in a cave. We’re not told if it was
natural or manmade. A stone had been place across the opening to protect the body
from wild animals. If he had remained in that tomb, the family would have opened
it about a year later, when the flesh was completely gone, and stored his bones
in a jar which would have been placed on a shelf in the cave wall.
Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha,
the sister of the dead man, said to him, “Lord, by this time there will be an
odor, for he has been dead four days.” Jesus said to her, “Did I not tell you
that if you believed you would see the glory of God?” So they took away the
stone. And Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, “Father, I thank you that you
have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this on account of
the people standing around, that they may believe that you sent me.” When he
had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out.” The
man who had died came out, his hands and feet bound with linen strips, and his
face wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, and let him go.”
That was what was supposed to happen but Jesus asked
for the tomb to be opened, to have that stone rolled away.
At this point, the practical Martha asserts herself.
”Lord,” she says, ”you know he’s been dead for four days. There’s going to be a
smell-a bad one.” This is a reminder that all those CSI-type shows are a little
misleading. When they discover a body
that has lain in an apartment or a wooded area for a couple weeks, they are not
going to find a pristine body—it’s going to be messy. Decomposition begins almost immediately.
”Lord, by now there is a stench,” was probably not
an expression of concern for the olfactory sensibilities of the mourners, it was
probably a way of saying it was too late to do anything. It may have even reflected
a concern that things were getting out of hand.
Funny isn’t it, we can talk about faith but sometimes,
in really dicey situations, we wonder if we’d be better settling for the status
quo. Maybe we fear the embarrassment of an unanswered prayer.
Jesus responded, ”I told you, if you believe, you’ll
see God’s glory.” Of course, we don’t know just when Jesus said this to her but
Jesus’ reminder was enough to make her relent.
The stone was rolled away and Jesus began to pray.
Of course, he had certainly prayed before this. Could he have spent part of the
days before he arrived in Bethany in prayer about this very moment?
In any case, Jesus prayed-prayed loud enough to
be heard-prayed that God would do something which would prompt people to believe
him.
Once he prayed, Jesus looked at the open door of
the tomb, a tomb holding his friend’s body, and shouted, ”Lazarus, come out.”
I bet every eye was on the entrance of that tomb.
Then, after a long moment something appeared the doorway. It was Lazarus. Because
his feet were bound he was shuffling. He couldn’t see because there was a cloth
over his face. I imagine him moving toward the light pouring though the open door.
Everyone was so dumbfounded, Jesus had to say, ”Go
untie him, already.”
John doesn’t let us witness the reunion of Lazarus
and his sisters. He doesn’t let us see Lazarus look into the face of the Man who
had called him back to life.
But, he does tell us the response of the onlookers.
Many Jews had come to visit Mary. They saw the things
which Jesus did. They believed in him. But some of them went off to the Pharisees
and told them what Jesus had done.
Some believed. The Man who had claimed to have the
power to lay down his life and take it up again had proven he had the power over
death.
Some rushed to the authorities and reported what
Jesus had done now. It was enough to put steel into the resolve of the Jewish
authorities to be rid of Jesus. Soon there would be a cross and another empty tomb.
This great miracle confirms Jesus’ identity. But
there’s more here.
This great miracle reminds us that God works in
ways we don’t always understand. We need faith with sticking power.
This great miracle warns us against being to quick to look at a situation--in an family, in the life of an individual, in a church--and say, "Too late for Jesus to fix that." There's hope even in the situations that really stink.
This great miracle transforms the way we look at
death. Because of what Jesus said and did at Bethany every pastor or concerned Christian
may approach a home touched by death with confidence. We can go there with a word
of hope and encouragement.
This great miracle reminds us of Jesus continuing
ministry. Jesus brings life to the dead. He does so every time a man or woman believes
and experience being born again. Christian baptism reminds us of the resurrection
power of Jesus at work in the life of the believer.
The as the believer receives the rite of baptism
he or she is said to be ”buried”
and then raised to new life.
It pictures the spiritual work Jesus does in the life of every believer.
It reminds us of why we can-because of Christ-find
hope in a cemetery.
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